The Couple Rings Finger: A deeper symbolism
Understanding the significance of the CoupleSets wedding ring finger can give this tradition more meaning. The circular design of the ring symbolizes an eternal and unending love. What is the significance of the fourth finger and more specifically, the left hand?
According to Dr. Jane R. Lewis an anthropologist of renown "the left hand is typically considered to be second-class to the right hand in a variety of cultures. It is the "other" hand. By placing the wedding ring on the left hand we symbolize that love and commitment are distinct from the more common right-handed activities in daily life. It is a tangible reminder of the unique and special bond that marriage has."
As we've already discussed the perceived connection to the heart is a powerful symbol. This direct connection to our hearts demonstrates that our devotion and love are not just superficial feelings, but are deeply rooted in our hearts.
There are a variety of interpretations of the significance behind the wedding finger that holds the ring. The journey of the ring from the fingers to the fourth finger could be a symbol of certain couples. From the first spark (a finger touching) to the deep bond and commitment (the fourth finger with the heart connected).
These symbolic interpretations transform the wedding ring finger into more than an accessory. It's a constant reminder of love and commitment, as well as the journey you take with your spouse.
Reinterpreting Traditions: The Modern Take on Wedding Ring Finger
The custom of wearing the wedding ring on one finger has changed in time, just like other traditions. In today's diverse, modern society, the "rules" regarding the wedding finger, are becoming less rigid, and more a reflection of the cultural background and personal preferences.
In today's world it is not unusual for couples or individuals to choose the finger or hand that their wedding rings will be placed on. The choice can be by a combination of cultural values or personal preferences, practicality or even a desire to redefine the meaning of traditional and symbols in a way that is appropriate to their individuality and relationship.
Therapist for relationships Dr. Sarah R. Young says, "In my clinic, I advise couples to make informed choices regarding wedding traditions including the finger. It could be a discussion between the couple to discuss the meaning of their vows and how they want to symbolize it. The way symbols are defined can have a profound impact on their significance.
Modern variations of wedding ring finger tradition don't reduce its significance, but instead add personal meaning. So long as the symbolism is in keeping with the couple's vows and mutual understanding the hand or finger isn't important.